Friday, January 3, 2014

Letter from Caspersons, December 30, 2013, 38 Weeks in Africe

Dear Family and Friends,
 
We've had such a busy month in December that today feels like a real vacation.  We had four people pull in our driveway this morning (three missionaries and their driver) who were on their way to pick up three other missionaries because their visas have expired and they are making a quick trip to Kenya to get their visas stamped their, then they can come back into the country for 90 more days without paying exhorbitant fees for the expiration.  Whatever the case, they were "starving".  We hated to see one elder "starve" because he couldn't have weighed more than 120 pounds soaking wet, but the other two looked like they could have handled starvation for a little while longer.  However, being the nice people that we are, and the fact that we just happened to have some waffle mix in our refrigerator (another story), we fixed them all breakfast and then they went on their merry way.  It wasn't even 9:30 before they LEFT our home, so we were stuck with making our own breakfast again (we hadn't eaten yet....or maybe that shouldn't have to be an explanation...whatever), and then do all of those dishes.  Our favorite thing...NOT!  Nevertheless, they will all be back home tonight in Uganda and the problem will be semi-solved, like many other things in a mission.  It's kind of like being on the telephone on hold and listening to music.  After a while you realize you've been listening for months and it's time to go home and someone else will just have to make that phone call again and listen on hold for their 18 months.  Not much gets totally resolved, but when it does, we're definitely happy!  The visa problem is one of those kinds of telephone calls.  Snore!
 
So, we have attached photos of our safari.  It's definitely not all the photos you will get.  We have some videos, too, but I've been told by other resources (mostly senior missionaries who have kids to help them solve these little computer problems) that we can set up a site through Google that will allow us to download our videos and then you can receive them and play them.  The most famous will be the full elephant sauntering behind us about 30 yards or so.  Wait a minute, it was actually in front of us.  We spotted him from the road while going on a last effort trip to see if we could find a lion to photograph.  So, he's by a tree minding his own business, and we decide (with our guide's permission) to get closer by going off road and getting so we could really film him better.  He was flapping his ears back and forth and the guide said that it was to cool himself off.  He's all alone, and we're in two trucks, we are behind the other truck, but only feet away.  So, this elephant starts to walk from north to south.  He's eyeing us, but doesn't seem at all bothered by us.  It's not like we're talking loud or anything, but we're definitely saying a few things and how great it is to get such a close up shot of an elephant all alone, etc  We're totally out of our trucks, but not far from them.  So, he saunters about 50 yards inbetween some trees and then stops and stares at us.  He turns and looks like he's going to go the other way, and suddenly turns back toward us and starts charging.  WE FREAK OUT!!!  He could have squashed us like ants under a shoe, but instead the guide starts clapping her hands and that elephant (who, by the way weighs between 6 and 7 tons) just stops in his tracks, turns around and walks away.  It was exciting and scarey at the same time.  We're lucky we had bodily control.  I got him on film running toward us a little bit, but I hear myself say, "Uh, OH!" and I turn it off and get in the truck.  We backed out of their and got going pretty quickly.
 
We saw baboons, including a new baby baboon...so ugly it was cute.  But, the hotel people chased them off because the baboons will steal your stuff. They were right by the pool area and I was lounging reading a book and there must have been about ten of them.  Of course, I didn't have my camera, but they came mighty close to where I was and I thought they were going to grab my glasses, but the hotel guy came and chased them off.  They've been known to be a nuisance, but of course, you're willing to put up with it if you have never seen them before.  It's kind of like your kids, after a while you get used to them and then they don't bother you any more!
 
We took the "African Queen" (what else) which was a nice two-decker pantoon boat over to the beginning of the falls.  It was a mile and a half hike up and it was steep, but we seemed to make it ok.  Of course, sweat, red faces, twisted ankles, hurting knees, and bug bites cannot figure in to the equation, as we figured some of us would suffer since we don't hike like that every day.  Heck, we don't hike like that every year, but some were in better shape than others.  You could not stay clean on the hike.  No way...because sometimes you had to sit on your bum just to get down a little rock slope so you wouldn't kill yourself for the climb to the next height.  Nevertheless, all of us who tried the hike made it and it was worth it all the way.  The scenery was beautiful and there were actually two falls that formed into one deep ravine that was more water than anyone would need to provide to electricity for all of Africa, it seemed.  We took pictures at the top and hung around for a while.  There used to be a bridge across the falls, but it was gone, and we decided that we wouldn't want to be the people who designed and built a new one...those waters were rapid.  Someone told us that the tribal kings used to throw people into the falls for kill them and if they didn't die, they didn't worry because they knew the crocodiles would eat them when they got to the bottom.  The river itself isn't that deep.  We saw hippos everywhere and if they would step up into position, they were in shallow water.  Now, the hippos were a little creepy.
 
We could see their eyes everywhere!  The first night we saw them it was getting almost dark and it looked like a bunch of rocks, but in the end, it was hippos.  They come of for air,and if they know someone's around, they get their eyes out of the water to make sure you're not going to attack.  If they had a baby boy hippo, the females would try and keep them out of their little group by literally pushing them away.  The females would protect their own.  And they are huge.  The little baby hippos were so cute, but you know, a brand new baby probably weighs about 200 pounds, so you can imagine what the mamas look like!  We did see one dead hippo and the baby was right by it.  The guide said the crocs will not attack babies because there's not enough meat on them, but they will kill a bigger hippo.  This poor baby didn't know her mama was dead, but we did....we think the smell tipped us off besides being tipped on her side and was in total rigormortis.  Just sayin'.
 
Of course, with all of this adventure, we had a great hotel and had buffets three meals a day.  Some of us would come to the table and ask why we were even there, because it wasn't from hunger!  We had a senior missionary meeting during all of this that was great and also had a little Christmas white elephant gift exchange. Someone actually got "white elephant" book ends.  It was funny!  Another person got their dream gift, a white T-shirt and socks, we got a bag of chocolate chips all the way from America, and Dad got a humanitarian T-shirt.  About a dozen people got salad spoons and forks from the gift shop in the hotel...evidently there may have been a sale on those, but it was hilarious in the end.  By the time people had gotten to number 30 or so to choose their gift, that was all that was left, and of course nobody wanted them anymore.  However, I don't have any, and was thinking maybe I shouldn't have been so stingy about those chocolate chips, but truthfully...I wanted them BAD!  President Chatfield got some toffee coated peanuts and his wife let him keep them but made him share them at our other Christmas party two days later, so he probably got about half a bag to himself. 
 
There's more to all of this stuff, but I'll just have to tell it another time.  Tuesday we had Christmas Eve with the elders and sisters, had 33 plus ourselves and served teriyaki pork roast with pineapple over rice, a tossed salad, rolls, and spice cake with ice cream.  There wasn't anything left.  We also had gifts from the mission for all of them, and because of some special friends in the U.S., we had a bag of candy for each elder and sister especially for them from our friends and us.  We played lots of games, once of which was which was a minute-to-win it game where you had to put a cookie on your forehead and try and use your facial muscles to get it into your mouth without using your hands.  We laughed so hard at that and one elder we thought my wet his pants he laughed so continually.  We watched "Mr. Krueger's Christmas" and "Joy to the World" as well, and had a lot of fun for about six hours, and then we sent them all home before it was too dark as we had elders from some distance who needed to travel home.
 
We've also had a wedding this week and it was beautiful.  It was the marriage of one of the girls in the mission office and one of the guys here in Jinja.  They've been best friends since they were little kids, both served missions here in Africa (they're Africans themselves) and it was a really huge event.  We went to the reception, all of the senior missionaries having made potato salad to go along with the other food.  There was African dancing and of course, karaoke.  We stayed until almost the end and that's when they cut the cake.  The couple and their bridesmaids and best men, etc. come down and they are all dancing and they get to the cake and then they light these fireworks kinds of things that stay lighted for a while.  Then they dancing around the cake and have two chairs at one side.  Then the couple sit in the chairs and they have already sliced some of the cake and they share the cake with each other.  Then they take cake to the bride's family first and serve them some cake.  Then they take cake to his family.  When the bride served the cake to her new husband's family (who were all women who helped raise him since his mother, father and all brothers and sisters are dead), she bowed down and served from the knees, which is the utmost respect.  These women loved it.  When these women got up to tell her family about their "son" Moses, they all danced to their designated area and then they (as old as they were) bowed down to the bride's family.  So, when the bride bowed to them, they were very, very happy about that.  Anyone could have some cake after that, but we left, because December had seemed to be one big, sleepless, getting ready for everything in the world month, and we were just tired. 
 
So, now you see why today seems like a vacation.  We're just doing normal stuff for P-Day..including laundry, etc.  We almost had to go to Rwanda this coming week, but thankfully we get to stay here.  There's not doubt we'll be sent in the future at some point to do something for the mission president, but we're okay with not having gone this soon after so much has been in the works.  We'd like to get back to normal things, like our meetings and trainings.
 
More to come in the future, but for now, CJ, we hope your birthday was great!   Ryan, we're celebrating yours in a big way.  The entire world is taking the day off in your honor, except here in Uganda.  It's just another day to them.  Oh, and Ethiopia...their calendar says that next September it will be 2007.  So, they're behind our calendar a bit, so think of how young you are there!  We were thankful to talk to our kids on Christmas Day and my parents.  We pray for you always and hope things are going well in your lives.  After hearing your voices and seeing some of you through Skype, it was a most rewarding Christmas for us. 
 
Thanks to others who sent Christmas greetings.  God bless all of you.
 
Love,
 
Mom and Dad, Ed and Kim, Grandma and Grandpa
 









 

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